So many people especially ladies are still connected to an Ex fantasizing about the nice times they had spent together. When they remember the lovely moments, even though they smile at such memories, they end up shedding tears or regretting their actions all over again…a part of their Ex is still with them, they have refused to let go completely!
When they see that Ex, their heartbeat fastens in fear or excitement.
Evn when another proposal came, you kept comparing such Ex with every suitor and feel he isn’t up to the standard. For how long will you hold on to the past?
Why put new wine in old bottle?
Don’t you know if he/she broke the relationship, you broke the relationship or maybe the relationship ended forcefully by whatever circumstance, you are to forget and not look back?
If the other party is not feeling the pain of the heartbreak where he/she is, why should you cry and hurt alone?
Why are you at the receiving end?
You broke up a relationship and barely a month after, your Ex has dusted him/herself up and has conveniently commenced another relationship, it shows over and over, that you are the one still holding on while the other party has moved on.
You are still missing him/her?
Still wishing he/she comes back to you?
and you say you are still in love with him/her?
It’s CALLED SOUL TIE!
My admonition to you is to break that soul tie. When a relationship ends, please cut off all soul tie.
Remove the pet name (crown, honey, sweetie etc) you saved his/her contact with on your phone or diary.
Remove or give out their gifts if it will continuously remind you about them. There is nothing you need their pictures for again
Pray out the residual love you have for him/her from your conscious and subconscious mind.
Rid your heart off him/her by occupying your heart and time with songs, prayer, humanitarian services, trainings and stuffs that count
Remember this, if he/she really loves you, they won’t make you cry – that’s the truth!
See, dear hurting one, the decision to love and not to love again solely lies in your hands.
If you chose to keep hurting, it’s your choice.
But I will rather advice you to cut of all soul ties, consciously and deliberately decide to stop loving them – that is the first step to your healing!
Take your burdens to the Lord and LEAVE IT THERE instead of carrying about the heavy weight of worry, hurt and sleepless nights.
Will you be able to do without him?…yes you will!
Will you be able to love some else as much as you love her?…assuredly yes!
Will you be able to trust another guy/lady?…very much possible
Only if you cut that soul tie!
There has been record of reunion after some weeks , months or years of breakup, if it happens that your Ex comes back begging for you to resume your relationship, kudos to you! You can start up the relationship if you are not hooked up by the time he/she returns.
BUT PLEASE, before you start off, bring up the issue of contention that caused the break up, thrash it well and be sure it won’t spring up again to cause another breakup.
And please note, if after every breakup, a particular partner keeps coming back and meets you readily available, it might become a routine of breakup-reunion, which is usually straining!. You have to prevent playing a second fiddle for an unstable man/lady who is on and off.