Hello about-to-be-married chap!
As you all know, today, November 14 is world’s sexual purity day. So, shout out to virgins and those who though, are no longer virgins but who have by the grace of God decided to stay sexually pure.
As a lady, you have all it takes to attract a man.
Your hair, eyes, nose, lips, breast, fingers,hips, buttocks, legs, walk/gait, accent etc are enough selling point for you. Sincerely yours, a lady have a whole lots of things to have a man without opening your laps for a guy.
For you guys, cash, charm, charisma also is enough selling points for you.
Others include having a good heart of gold, being compassionate and kindhearted.
Another selling point is, good attitude, being cultured, respectful and of a good etiquette- all these and many more attract good relationships (marriage inclusive).
Please and please, look inwards, take a mirror and look at your physical beauty, take a Bible and also see who you are, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a peculiar people, believe you me don’t trade yourself cheaply.
Stay undefiled (body and heart).
Be morally sane
Avoid the decadence of sex, fornication, masturbation, pornography, blue film, reading M&B, hints and so on that corrupts you and make you ‘hungry and thirsty for sex’.
Why awake love before its time?
Sincerely yours, if a man hasn’t paid your bride price, no need to show him your breast, laps and sexual organs.
Don’t allow ‘looky looky’ let alone ‘touchy touchy’.
As ladies/girls are being lured to sex, in my few years of counselling, I have seen guys and wonderful brothers been lured too – and most fell!
So, let him who think he stand take heed less he fall!…selah.
Our parents and loved ones admonished us back then to stay pure….and we did despite the allurement with recharge card, phone, visits to boutiques and eateries, trip abroad, offer of job, birthday gift and so on.
May God help you as you decide to stay pure.
Cover your nakedness, don’t be source of defilement/seduction to the opposite sex.
Don’t begin what you can’t finish.
See, let me tell you, poverty isn’t an excuse to be wayward. In the same vein, being born with a silver spoon should also not expose you to waywardness.
NB: i am not talking about virginity alone but sexual purity in all entirety.
remain pure first for god, yourself, your future spouse and a good memory lane for the future and your unborn children.